Kutheni le nto abantwana bethanda ukudlala iidola?

Abantwana bahlala bathanda ukulinganisa indlela yokuziphatha kwabantu abadala kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla, kuba bacinga ukuba abantu abadala banokwenza izinto ezininzi. Ukufezekisa intelekelelo yabo yokuba ziinkosi, abayili bemidlalo yokudlala bayile ngokukodwaizinto zokudlala zodoli. Kusenokubakho abazali abanexhala lokuba abantwana babo bangamakhoboka otywala ngokugqithiseleyo imidlalo yokudlala indima, kodwa le yindlela yokuziphatha eqhelekileyo ukuba abantwana bakhule ngayo ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile. Imidlalo yokudlala indima iya kubenza ukuba bazi ngakumbi ekuhlaleni kwaye bahlangabezane neemfuno zabo zentlalo ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile. .

Abantwana baya kuba nokuqonda okunzulu ngesini xa ukudlala imidlalo yeDollhouse. Amantombazana ahlala edlala indawo yokuba ngumtshakazi okanye umama emdlalweni, ngelixa amakhwenkwe kunokwenzeka ukuba adlale indawo katata okanye umfanekiso weqhawe lobudoda, njengoGqirha, isicima mlilo, amapolisa njalo njalo.

Abazali akufuneki banxibe iiglasi ezinemibala ukubukela imidlalo yabantwana, kuba kukusebenza kokukhula komntu phakathi kwabantwana kunye neempawu zokukhula kwengqondo kwabantwana ngokwesondo. Kodwa olu hlobo lomdlalo lufuna ukuba abazali bakhumbuze abantwana bakho ukuba akufuneki babambe amalungu athambileyo omnye komnye kwaye bangonzakalisi umzimba womnye nomnye.

Kwangelo xesha, abazali akufuneki baphazamise kakhulu kulwabiwo lwendima yabantwana kumdlalo. Wonke umntwana unendima yokuphupha kunye nomsebenzi. Ukuba ngaphezulu komntwana omnye ufuna ukudlala indima efanayo, nceda ubavumele bathethathethane nabanye kangangoko banakho. Eli lithuba elihle lokuhlakulela izakhono zentlalo nonxibelelwano.

Zeziphi izibonelelo eziKhethekileyo zokuDlala kwindlu yoDoli?

Ngokutsho kweengcali, umdla wabantwana kunye nemisebenzi ethile yinto ebalulekileyo ekumiseleni indlela yokucinga. Abantu abaninzi ngempazamo bakholelwa ukuba indlela yokucinga yomntwana inokumisela indlela asebenza ngayo. Kwiminyaka ethile, abantwana kufuneka bahlakulele umdla wabo kunye nokuziphatha kwabo ngendlu yokudlala.

Ukuba uhambisa abantwana bakho kwivenkile yokudlala, abantwana baya kothuka indlu yokudlala ende eyenziwe ngomthi. Amakhitshi okudlala ngamaplanga kwaye iithoyi zokutya ezenziwe ngomthi Okwangoku kwintengiso kunokwenza abantwana bonwabe kakhulu ekudlaleni indima.

Xa abantwana bedlala imidlalo yokudlala indima, baya kufunda ubudlelwane phakathi kwabo bonke abalinganiswa kumdlalo ngokungathí sina kunakuqala, kuba bunokwenza umdlalo ube yinyani ngakumbi. Ukuba bakwiUmdlalo wokudlala wosaphoBaza kucinga nokuqikelela ukuba abazali bafanele babafundisa njani abantwana babo. Ngolo hlobo lokulinganisa, banokubona ngcono iimfuno ezithile zobuchwephesha kunye nobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu, kunye nokukhuthaza ukukhula ngakumbi kwezakhono zentlalo.

Kwelinye icala, abantwana bachitha ixesha elininzi kwingxelo yemigca xa bedlala imidlalo yosapho. Le nkqubo inokuwuphucula kakuhle umbutho wolwimi lwabantwana kunye nezakhono zonxibelelwano.

Zininzi izindlu zodoli kunye neepropathi zokudlala indima kuhlobo lwethu. Iiseti zethu zasekhitshini kunye neethoyi zokutya nazo zamkelwe ngokubanzi. Ukuba ukhathazekile ngokukhula okusempilweni kwabantwana kwaye ufuna ukuthengisa iithoyi kwindawo yakho, nceda unxibelelane nathi.