Uninzi lwabazali luya kudibana nengxaki efanayo kwinqanaba elinye. Abantwana babo babekhala kwaye benze ingxolo ezivenkileni ngenxa nje yeimoto yokudlala yeplastiki okanye a iphazili yedayinaso yomthi. Ukuba abazali abayilandeli iminqweno yabo yokuthenga ezi zinto zokudlala, abantwana baya kuba ndlongondlongo kwaye bahlale evenkileni. Ngeli xesha, akunakwenzeka ukuba abazali balawule abantwana babo, kuba baphose elona xesha lilungileyo lokufundisa abantwana babo. Ngamanye amagama, abantwana baye baqonda ukuba banokuyiphumeza iminqweno yabo okoko nje belila, ke nokuba ngabaphi na amaqhinga abawasebenzisayo abazali babo, abasayi kuguqula iingqondo zabo.
Ke kufanelekile ukuba abazali banike abantwana imfundo yengqondo kwaye babaxelele ukuba hlobo luni izinto zokudlala kufanelekile ukuzithenga?
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Ukufundisa umntwana ayikokumfamekisa ingqondo ebomini kunye nolwazi olufunekayo, kodwa kukuvumela umntwana ukuba abe nemvakalelo yokuxhomekeka kunye nokuthembela. Abanye abazali banokuzibuza ukuba baxakekile ngumsebenzi kwaye bathumela abantwana babo kumaziko okufundela, kodwa ootitshala abanako ukubafundisa kakuhle abantwana babo. Kungenxa yokuba abazali ababanikanga uthando olufanelekileyo abantwana babo.
Abantwana kufuneka bafumane utshintsho olwahlukileyo lweemvakalelo njengoko bekhula. Kufuneka bafunde ukuba nomonde kubazali babo. Xa besithi iimfuno zabo, abazali abanakho ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke izinto ezilindelwe ngabantwana ukuze basombulule ingxaki ngokukhawuleza. Umzekelo, ukuba bafuna into yokudlala efanayo emva kokuba sele benayoIphazili yomthi, abazali bafanele bafunde ukungayamkeli. Kuba into yokudlala efanayo ayizukuzisa abantwana ulwaneliseko kunye nokufezekisa, kodwa iya kubenza bakholelwe ngempazamo ukuba yonke into inokufumaneka ngokulula.
Ngaba abanye abazali bacinga ukuba yinto nje engenamsebenzi le? Logama nje benokuhlawulela iimfuno zabantwana, akukho mfuneko yokwala. Nangona kunjalo, abazali khange bacinge malunga nokuba banokwanelisa abantwana babo kuzo zonke iimeko xa abantwana babo bekwishumi elivisayo kwaye befuna izinto ezibiza kakhulu? Abantwana ngelo xesha babesele benakho konke ukubanakho kunye nokukhetha ukujongana nabazali babo.
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Xa abantwana abaninzi bebona ezinye izinto zokudlala, Bavakalelwa kukuba le nto yokudlala imnandi ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto zabo zokudlala. Oku kungenxa yokuba banqwenela ukuphonononga. Ukuba abazali bathatha abantwana babo bayaIvenkile yokudlala, nkqu izinto zokudlala zeplastikhi eziqhelekileyo eziqhelekileyo kwaye oololiwe abenziwe ngomthiziya kuba zezona zinto abantwana bafuna ukuba nazo. Oku akubangelwa kukuba zange badlale ngezi zinto zokudlala, kodwa kungenxa yokuba baqhele ngakumbi ukuthatha izinto ezizezabo. Xa abazali beqonda ukuba abantwana babo "musa ukuyekelela de ufikelele usukelo lwakho", kufuneka bathi hayi kwangoko.
Kwelinye icala, abazali mabangabavumeli abantwana babo balahle ubuso phambi koluntu. Ngamanye amagama, musa ukugxeka okanye ngokungakhathali ukwala umntwana wakho esidlangalaleni. Vumela abantwana bakho bajongane nawe wedwa, ungabavumeli babukelwe, ukuze bonwabe ngakumbi kwaye baziphathe ngendlela engekho ngqiqweni.
Ixesha Post: Jul-21-2021